Our Free Online Dating Advice Column Takes On the Cheaters

Sometimes it seems everyone everywhere is cheating. Just look at the poor disgraced and probably soon-to-be-ex-first lady of South Carolina - yet another victim of a cheating man whom she trusted and supported for many years. While the world thought Governor Sanford was lost in the Appalachians, he was chilling with his Argentine mistress. And to think, his wife had warned him she could only forgive the affair if he never saw the woman again. Must have been some woman, since the feelings of his four sons apparently didn't count much either. Moreover, the question on everyone's mind is how the good Governor is going to explain the near- $10,000 trip to Argentina for which he appears to expect South Carolina to pick up the tab.

Really! Why do people feel they must lie? This poor woman discovered her husband's infidelity purely by accident, finding her husband's letter to his mistress, while looking for some documentation per his request. Let's not follow in her footsteps, ladies. Today's free online dating advice will deal with how to beat them to it. If someone is going to get cheated, it's not going to be us. We have ways of protecting our hearts and assets from conniving cheaters.

There is lots of helpful information to be collected online about any person. Let's find out everything there is to know about the husbands and boyfriends who don't want us to know about their real location, criminal history, age, career, marital status, comings, goings, spending habits, tax liens - you name it. It's out there on the need-to-know basis, and we need to know. We give them our lives and they take them, and then take some more. Ladies, repeat after me your free online dating advice mantra of the day: we will not be cheated!